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"A family based in North London wants to find an extraordinary and experienced tutor to guide their most junior child on his early path to becoming an British gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might naturally overlook the term "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

However, it may be the most significant part of this unique job advert, as it seeks to hire a tutor for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of submissions have since been received since the unnamed family published their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the listing has gained interest in the news, with numerous wondering why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their quest, stated that despite initial scepticism, he considered the idea "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he noted they recognized the unusual nature of their requirement, and how young their son is.

Nevertheless, they clarified that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had by then become established".

What precisely does the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert replied. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He said the elder child had adopted "really subtle, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural norms. The family informed the consultant they hoped to prevent this pattern to happen again with their younger child.

The intention: To bring in a English tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the education at the outset here is kind of absorbed naturally," stated Adam.

It's by means of this natural absorption that the family are expecting the child will pick up the British traits they wish to cultivate.

Adam explained the tutor needed to be someone who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The instructor must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, simply by nature," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in equestrian activities, skiing, creative fields and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a wide range of interests.

Additionally though, he stated the family desired the tutor to register the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "pony-riding and learning an tool by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son become a "British gentleman" will lead to accomplishment and provide access.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he adds.

However, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "English culture", could the child pick up what is termed cultural bias from the globally influenced family he resides with in any case?

"Absolutely", answered he. "They know this may not work, but they've just taken the view of, 'we should try and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he explained.

Impractical

A number of in the private teaching field who have similar concerns.

An education leader, chief executive of a tutoring service, who provides individual instructors, wrote that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be grown into, not designed."

Peter wrote that he had moved from Asia to the Britain at the period of 7 years old, and had been educated understanding and living dual heritages. He continued to be educated at Cambridge University.

"The notion that an individual can act as a representation of Britishness, someone who can in some way transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate onto a 12-month-old child, seems to me optimistic and unfeasible," he wrote.

"From my perspective, employing a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will does not instantly achieve the goal they hope for.

"I never had such a figure, and yet I have been privileged enough to experience numerous of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, self-identity cannot be forced from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Purchasing UK Culture

Certainly, Britishness is something Adam believes can be taught – and commercialized.

"I think the reality that the international society views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating